SAFE Bar Network
Skeptical Harassment is Happening in Your Venue? This Post is For You.
Updated: Jul 21, 2022
If you or someone you know has worked in the food and beverage industry you've undoubtedly experienced or heard stories about everything from the bizarre to the scary. Food and beverage employees suffer the highest rates of workplace harassment of any industry, both from customers and colleagues. And we know that across industries, sexual harassment goes unreported more often than not.
The bottom line? If you are the owner or manager of a bar, restaurant, club or cafe, harassment is likely happening in your establishment. And if you don’t know about it, your employees haven't told you about it. Skeptical? Ask your employees if they have seen someone grab others when they walk by or heard someone make sexual comments that make others uncomfortable. These are two examples of sexual harassment.
Food & beverage leaders have a responsibility to be proactive in preventing harassment before it starts. This doesn’t just include protecting your employees; it includes protecting your patrons as well.
Here’s the good news: Bartenders, waiters and hosts are amazing people. Not only can they juggle tables and wait times, coordinate unique dining experiences with balletic grace, and create pure magic in a glass; successful service professionals are also skilled social facilitators who know how to read human behavior and respond without escalation.
For this reason, bartenders, waiters and other service staff are uniquely positioned as frontline allies to women, LGBTQIA patrons, and others who want to enjoy a safe night out.
Leaders need to have these conversations with their teams before someone reports a harassment incident. Teach your team to notice uncomfortable and unsafe situations, interrupt effectively, and offer support.
Not only will this benefit your patrons – it’ll protect your staff too. Once your employees learn these skills, they’ll quickly notice when someone is uncomfortable and unsafe and step in to help out. And by starting the conversation preventatively, your employees will know that you are committed to increasing safety and giving everyone - employees and patrons - a safe night out.
This blog post was a collaboration with our friends at HRuprise. HRuprise is a network of HR professionals dedicated to changing the way employees are supported in the workplace.
They help employees get the objective, trustworthy HR support they’ve always deserved, and help employers build trust, deepen loyalty, and inspire every employee to bring their best self to work.
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If you or someone you know has experienced sexual harassment our partners can help. Visit MOCSA.org and RAINN.org
To learn more about the field of violence response and prevention visit PreventConnect.org and NSVRC.org